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The early days of parenthood are such a blur — a strange mix of magic and madness. Your arms are full, your eyes are heavy, and your heart… your heart is suddenly too big for your chest. Everyone around you seems to have advice.... Google, aunties, strangers in supermarkets. But some truths don’t come in manuals or baby apps. They come slowly, whispered through exhaustion and love. Here are fifteen of those truths....the kind I wish someone had gently told me in those first foggy months. 1. Fed is best — and so are you. Whether it’s breast milk, formula, or both — your baby doesn’t care how the love comes, as long as it does. There’s no prize for cracked nipples or sleepless nights spent obsessing over ounces. What matters is that your baby is fed, growing, and that you, too, are surviving. Feed them in the way that keeps you both steady. Both physically and emotionally. 2. Postpartum depression doesn’t always look like sadness. Sometimes it looks like snapping at your partner for no r...

She isn’t asking for diamonds. She isn’t asking for candlelit dinners under the stars. What she’s really begging for—sometimes with words, sometimes with silence— is something far rarer in today’s world: TIME! Ten minutes without your phone. A look that lingers. A conversation that doesn’t end in hurry. A pause that whispers, “You still matter. I still choose you.” Why She Keeps Asking To some husbands, it feels repetitive. “Didn’t we just sit yesterday?” But for her, it’s not repetition—it’s survival. Science tells us that when women love, their bodies release oxytocin, the bonding hormone. It makes her long for closeness, reassurance, connection. When that need isn’t met, her nervous system feels it like hunger left unfed. She doesn’t want “more.” She simply wants to feel safe in love. For men, though, stress works differently. Biology nudges them to withdraw, to fix problems silently, to carry weight alone. So when she reaches out, he may step back— not because he doesn’t care, but ...